Will I be legally protected if the marriage remains hidden from the first wife?
Legally, you are in a weak position. The law requires notifying the first wife for official registration. Staying “Urfi” to hide the marriage means you lose your official status as a wife in government records.
Can I travel with my children without the father’s consent?
No. Even in Urfi marriage, once lineage is proven, the father can place a travel ban on children. You need a “Travel Authorization” documented by him.
If he refuses to register to avoid notifying his first wife, how do I secure my rights?
You must keep the original Urfi contract and any “Acknowledgment of Marriage” ($إقرار\ بالزوجية$) signed by him and authenticated by witnesses to use in court later if needed.
Do I have a right to a “Mahr” (Dowry) and “Muakhar” (Deferred Dowry)?
Yes, but you cannot enforce payment through the police or courts unless you first file a suit to prove the marriage.
What is the risk if he denies the marriage entirely?
This is the biggest risk. You would need to file a “Marriage Validation Suit.” Without witnesses and the physical paper, your rights to support and inheritance are lost